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27 December 2023

Advent and Christmas readings and music – #Unitarians gather again in Ringwood December 2023

As previously announced, the band of faithfuls making up the fellowship of Didymus in Ringwood gathered together for a combined Advent and Christmas service, on 10th December.


The darkness of the tradition of Advent is supposed to be a suitable preparation for the bright light and joy of Christmas, and our gathering attempted to include elements of both.


There was surprising range of recorded music.  There was Paul McCartney singing a song inspired by the Hare Krishna faith of George Harrison, “One of these Days”.  Bing Crosby sang a song by a Unitarian Universalist, Noël Regny, “Do you hear what I hear?”.  A Wiltshire church congregation allowed us to sing along with them the 1849 Unitarian hymn by Edmund Sears, “It Came Upon a Midnight Clear”.  The Unitarian Musical Society helped us out with a hymn from the purple UK Unitarian hymnbook, “Come, Sing a Song with Me”.  Lastly, Voces8 floated us away by singing a setting by Christopher Tin of a poem “Hope is the thing with feathers” by Emily Dickinson, who had a Unitarian upbringing.


We had a reading from Isaiah chapter 40 (vv 3-5, 21-24, & 28-31) with its traditional cry for Advent: 


A voice cries out:
‘In the wilderness prepare the way of the Lord,
    make straight in the desert a highway for our God.

Every valley shall be lifted up,
    and every mountain and hill be made low;
the uneven ground shall become level,
    and the rough places a plain.’


Our second reading was "The Journey of the Magi" by T. S. Eliot.  


Our third reading was a personal view by Rev Arek Maleck, as published in "The Inquirer" (issue 8073 Dec 2023), regarding how Unitarians are able to celebrate Christmas even without the traditional views about Jesus.  Its main message was: “The motivations for embracing traditional lyrics, speaking of miracles, virgin birth, and God incarnate, vary.  Some may do it simply for the pleasure of familiarity.  But I'd like to think that many of us turn to them out of a realisation of the immense value of metaphor and paradox.  This appreciation allows us to immerse ourselves in the Christmas story fully — including submerging our heads in it.....Carl Gustav Jung taught that, oddly enough, the paradox is one of our most valuable spiritual possessions, while uniformity of meaning is a sign of weakness.  Hence a religion becomes inwardly impoverished when it loses or waters down its paradoxes; whereas their multiplication enriches, because only the paradox comes anywhere near to comprehending the the fullness of life.”





The personal contribution of the president for the day was as follows.



“Not everyone finds this season a season of cheer and goodwill.  If you are finding it difficult preparing for Christmas this year, you are not the only one. This can be for all kinds of reasons.

May we know that we fill a particular hole in the fabric of the universe, and that we are known, better than we know ourselves.



A way of thinking about Christmas is as a time of hope.


If one is not a traditional Christian, or feeling no connection to Jesus at all, then hope for what?


Hope for change — things can’t go on as they are

Hope for company — for the security and warmth that being with others can bring

Hope for peace — for rest from troubles

Hope for clarity and order — that there is some sense to be made of this life


In short, hope for renewal.


The reason the story has stuck so well is that most people love the idea of a new baby.

Many can’t help smiling about such news — seeing a new baby as a sign of the possibility of a fresh start.  This chimes neatly with hope for renewal.



This season is not necessarily the season of gold and red and green.  There are many reasons why our mood might be coloured midnight blue. Yet the candles of Christmas remind us that goodness overcomes darkness, and that hope is stronger than despair. 


It is said that it is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.  But just as no one curses our darkness for us, no one can light a light for us. This is something we need to do for ourselves.  As Nick Bains says, self-pity can become an idol, making it all too easy to not hear the whispered language of newness, freedom and vocation.



This season of the potential for abundance is the time to be gentle with ourselves and each other.


If we allow it to, and by the breaking in of grace, what happens at Christmas allows us to believe that opposites can be reconciled.  That change will come.  That there is a peace that can be found, that there are people who will love us, that there can be a new beginning.


All this comes announced and reflected in the painful, messy, disregarded birth of a human babe, born in discomfort, but full of innocence and potential.  In the darkness, but surrounded by light.”






20 October 2022

The teachings of Jesus, the teachings about Jesus, or something else? Unitarians in Ringwood gathering 9 October 2022

Welcome
Welcome to this table
Whatever path has brought you here
Whatever load you carry
Let us rest a while together.
May our hearts be open to accept what comes to us as a stranger,
May our minds be open to wonder at what we do not understand,
And may our spirits be nourished by our time here together,
Before we again take up our loads and set off upon our many paths.
Welcome !


For some time now we have deliberately focused our gatherings on the heritage endowed by our forebears in the Unitarian tradition, recognising that, while there are many wisdoms in the world, in the UK most cultural references derive from Christianity since the later Roman times.  We do sometimes marvel at the insights from other cultures, are sometimes thrilled by some ideas, and sometimes even pick out parallels, to emphasise a point.  But, in general, we feel ill-equipped to understand the rich nuances of other faiths.  We don’t want to misappropriate or mis-ascribe, and we feel on firmer ground when giving priority to what we were exposed to in our own backgrounds.

We claim no superiority for Christian wisdom.  We do not think there should be any hierarchies when it comes to classical systems of faith, as it is likely that in any long-established faiths the same human conditions will have been addressed sufficiently, somewhere along the line. 

It’s simply that if we can find what seems needed in the moment right there, within the boundaries of our inherited faith, we do not think it necessary for us to go anywhere more exotic.  

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And so it was that on 9th October our small group, meeting once again, found that the readings for the day were taken from our current favourite book about Jesus: the Gospel of Mark.


This is the book that opens with the words: “The beginning of the good news of Jesus Christ, God’s Son.”  For the avoidance of ambiguity, we remember that the word “Christ” is not a surname but a descriptor deriving from the Hebrew words meaning ‘one who has been anointed by God’, and that in the Hebrew histories several notable characters, including Hebrew kings, have been “God’s anointed”. Also we note that the term "son of God" is used in the Hebrew Bible as way to refer to humans who have a special relationship with God. 

The first reading was the tale in chapter 14 of Mark, in which a woman brought to Jesus some very expensive ointment — or lotion, as we might imagine it — and poured it on his head.  This act was interpreted by the people in the story in two different ways.  It was a meaningless waste of an asset that could have been sold to raise funds to aid the poor.  Or it was an act of devotion to Jesus, a teacher and friend whom the woman worried she might lose, her act being a metaphor for the cleansing ritual necessary prior to death.   

When we watch a movie, we can tell from the soundtrack that something sinister is about to happen — the director makes a musical reference that we have learned to understand.  But Mark only had the written word at his disposal.  By including this second meaning in the story of the woman with the ointment, Mark is giving us those warning chords, warning us that Jesus is going soon to be in danger, as we see from the next chapter in the story. 

The second reading came from the next chapter of Mark, chapter 15.

The Roman soldiers, who had Jesus in custody, mocked Jesus for the charge that had been brought against him.  It had been told them that Jesus had claimed the role of kingship over the Jewish people.  So, they dressed him in the Imperial purple and they wove some thorny twigs together to make a crown, ramming it on his head.  They beat him and spat upon him, and then took him out to be executed.  Passers-by, including some of his strongest religious critics, continued the mockery as he hung on the Cross dying — they challenged this person who had been involved in the mending and healing of others to save himself also from suffering.

So what is the something new in these texts, promised us at the outset?  

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It is often said within Unitarian circles, and you may well have read it in many different phrasings, that, where they are interested in Jesus at all, Unitarians follow the teachings of Jesus, rather than believe what is taught about him. This is said outwardly, too, on Wikipedia, and on many Unitarian leaflets and webpages.  This is to convey that our prime interests are ethics and spirituality, and not the oft-quoted, rather blunt perception of religion as a set of beliefs involving (what are often rather derisively viewed as) supernatural attributes of someone who may have lived a long time ago, a long way away.

The 'teachings of Jesus' view can appeal to some types of Christian but is also welcoming and open to anyone who sees Jesus as simply one thinker or visionary amongst many others that they value.  It is a phrasing that has appealed to those who have fallen out of love with the established Church but retain a link in some way to that heritage.

But it seems to us that there is something we need to consider here: a new way of approaching this same thing, or at least new to us.

Our first scene is of the woman who anoints Jesus with a costly and calming scented oil.  It has featured in countless works of art as well as in theatre and film, living up to the words Mark places in the mouth of his Jesus, “Truly I tell you, wherever the good news is proclaimed in the whole world, what she has done will be told in remembrance of her.”  Yet familiar as this scene is, it is all too easy to miss something rather astonishing — though it is there in plain sight.  When Jesus talks of the good news to be proclaimed he is clearly talking about the telling of a story.  

Perhaps the startling thing becomes clearer when we realise what he is not talking about.  Mark’s Jesus is not talking about the passing on of certain teachings, rules, or ideas.  The good news isn’t a collection of wise sayings or thought-provoking aphorisms.  The good news, as Mark would have it, is a story.  It says so, right up there in the opening credits.  This is the good news of Jesus Christ, God’s Son.  This is to be a story in which there are characters and plots.  And it is in the telling of the story that good news is proclaimed.

It was common practice in Israel to gather the sayings of teachers; indeed, we have many examples of Rabbinic texts and Wisdom literature.  There were also collections of the sayings attributed to a historical Jesus, such as the Gospel of Thomas, for example, or the imagined Q document. That was not, however, what Mark wrote.

Mark did not present us with the teachings of Jesus but, rather, the story. 

Mark did not present us with a history of Jesus but, rather, a story.

Mark presents us with a story focused around Jesus, around the things this protagonist did and said, and that were said about him, and done to him.

We are not given a programme to follow.  We are not given a philosophy to expound.  We are given a story to engage with, to be inspired by, and to see our own stories through.  We can ask if that changes the story.  We can ask ourselves who we would be in the story Mark gives us.  We can ask if we are always the same person in that story.  We can ask what we would have done. 

We can be challenged and encouraged by images and phrases from it.  We can learn phrases and lines off by heart, as children learn rhymes and teenagers learn the words to raps or pop songs.  We can strive to emulate the parts we love.  We can see the parts of the story we wish were different and see parallels with parts of our world we wish were different.  Inspired by the story, we can work to change the parts of our world that we wish were different.


So perhaps Unitarians need not be people who follow the teachings of Jesus, in bald, abstracted form.  Perhaps they can be people who cherish the story of Jesus.  

Perhaps rather than argue —  over history, what Jesus did or did not teach; or theology, who or what was Jesus; or what authority we give to those teachings, from where does the final arbiter emerge — we could share a mutual love of a story, and simply and excitedly engage with how it touches us and what it means to us personally? 



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So much for what we get from the first reading.  When we left the story of Jesus and the woman with the expensive lotion those warning chords were sounding, about the danger to Jesus coming in the next scene.  All the best stories need some suspense.  And bearing in mind that, in the world in which Jesus as teacher was proclaimed, they saw little new or even interesting in what he said (we know this from the responses of Roman and Jewish authors of the time), what is the suspense all about?  What exactly was it that caught the world alight?

The storyline goes on with Jesus being mocked and beaten, then executed.  The scenes are very powerful.  Whatever one’s beliefs, it is hard not to feel the pain and sorrow of these scenes.  But as with any good tale, there is also something else going on here.

Firstly, look how here, even more than in any nativity tale — or any other tale —  from the other Gospels, Jesus is presented as an alternative to Caesar, dressed in the Imperial purple, crowned, surrounded by soldiers.  The very mockery itself gives the audience a striking and memorable key to the Gospel. There is the kingdom of Caesar, of the State, and there is this kingdom of Jesus the anointed of God.  And the one fears the other, and wants to cast it down.



Secondly, and very much linked to the first point, Jesus is crucified with rebels.  Both the punishment, and the company, make it clear that the Jesus of this story is tied up in the resistance to oppression.  The good news of Jesus Christ, God’s Son, the Jesus story that Mark tells us, is about two ways of living in the world, and about placing ourselves at any given moment on the one side or the other.

The good news is a story of resistance to oppression, and Jesus is written in the style of a Greek hero, though cast as a Jewish Holy Man.

And thirdly, perhaps most shockingly, see what was said of Jesus here: “He saved others, he cannot save himself !”  Let that sink in.  The Jesus of Mark’s story has travelled far and wide, helping in word and deed the weak, the sick, the impoverished, the outcast.  Jesus faces down religious and State power to stand for those who cannot stand for themselves. The hero of Mark follows another law, another way of living, bravely, and aware of what the final consequences will be, as we see in the first reading:  “....you will not always have me. She has done what she could; she has anointed my body beforehand for its burial.”  

He saved others and hoped for his own saving, as Mark tells us between the two scenes we have looked at, in how Jesus prays in the garden of Gethsemane.  But ultimately, despite all that we might wish for him, Jesus living in truth as he experiences it cannot save himself.  The Jesus story challenges and inspires us to save others while we ourselves also live in hope of being saved, without any certainty.

So this is what caught the imagination of the world.  The good news of Jesus Christ, God’s Son, the Jesus story, is not a path or practice that promises to spare us suffering.  Nor is it a collection of wisdom that leads us to personal contentment or prosperity.  There are, and always have been, versions of both of these things out there. 

Instead, the new of the Jesus story is the tale that inspires us to see the world as it is’; yet to embrace the joy of being part of the breaking through of the world as it should be’.  To gaze into the abyss as unflinching as any; yet, moment after fading moment, to dance in the flickering light of something brighter, something better, being passed from torch to torch. 

Jesus is crushed by the Empire of Caesar, by the weight of oppression, and yet the empty tomb Mark leaves us with at the end of his Gospel lets us ask if Jesus too wasn’t finally saved by another.  Is there, in fact, a sequel?  Can we save Jesus in the alternative sequels we play in our heads and hearts?  Nothing tantalises better than the end of a story that half-promises a sequel.  This story has all the ingredients; no wonder it set the world alight.



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Perhaps it’s more complicated for Unitarians, than aiming to follow the teachings of Jesus.  Perhaps the dance with a narrative, with all that it may invoke in us throughout the weavings of our own lives, is what gives purpose and meaning.  Perhaps some Unitarians are among that broader circle of diverse people who cluster around the Jesus story; who engage with and are inspired by the story of a man who offered another way to be, who did not accept oppression; a man who could save others but could not save himself.

Maybe none of us can save ourselves in this world of ours, but just maybe, if we play with alternative ways of being, and sequels, we all can save each other.




Rachel Held Evans (1981-2019) — Emma Green, writing for The Atlantic, notes that Evans "was part of a vanguard of progressive-Christian women who fought to change the way Christianity is taught and perceived in the United States."  Green goes on to argue that Evans' legacy is "her unwillingness to cede ownership of Christianity to its traditional conservative-male stewards" and that her "very public, vulnerable exploration of a faith forged in doubt empowered a ragtag band of writers, pastors, and teachers to claim their rightful place as Christians.” (Wikipedia)


16 June 2020

In the beginning was the experience of Truth — How to say “We believe….” as recognition of community


We Believe
Often we read or hear something and our first thought is “I wouldn’t say that” or “I’m not comfortable with that language”.  We pore over the words of hymns or dissect the latest sermon or blog, and all the while we draw lines and dig trenches.  Creedal Tests have been used for centuries to do the same — as if Truth were a sword to separate the Sheep from the Goats, or the wheat from the chaff. 
Pause. 
Breathe. 
Don’t ask yourself if you agree with me; just take a moment to see if you can hear what I’m saying.  No one requires you to do anything or take any stance for the moment; and when that time comes you can, and you will.  But this isn’t that time, not yet.
I believe Truth isn’t a sword: it’s that in which “we live and move and have our being” (Act 17:28, Cretica by Epimenides).  It’s not something to use to divide and hold apart; rather, it is the very thing that makes us one.  It isn’t something to use to conquer others; it is the very foundation that allows us to be free. 

EPIMENIDES OF CNOSSOS a semi-mythical 7th or 6th century BC
 
Greek seer and philosopher-poet.

When I say “I believe”, I am not telling you what you ought to think, or requiring you to confirm my view.  I am sharing with you something about how I experience the world, offering a glimpse into why I say and do the things I do.  I am speaking my Truth.  That is to say, I am voicing that Truth open to all, shared by all, lived in by all but as experienced by me in all my limitations, with all my back-story, and in the language I have learned throughout my life.  
Expanding that idea, it is a beautiful thing to be able to say: “We believe…”.  It is an acknowledgement of a shared experience, a shared language, and shared hopes.  It is never the fruit of a simple debate over concepts and words: it is, at heart, a recognition of community rather than a tool for forging it.  The words of a Creed can inspire the conversation, the prayer, and the actions that bring about the “We believe …” moment, but they themselves neither create it nor constitute it. 
The Apostolic Creed, one of the most widely used and oldest of the creedal statements in Christianity, has to be understood in the context of a shared community, a shared set of stories and rituals, a shared experience of life.  It was spoken believer to believer, and is deeply embedded in the ritual of Baptism — where the dialogue isn’t one of Gatekeeper to Supplicant but, rather, the excited back and forth between friends or new partners.  The “Do you..” and “I do ..” is not one of uncertainty but of already knowing the answer and delighting in hearing it out loud.  Think of the wedding ceremony where each partner is asked if they take the other: there is no uncertainty at this point, and yet the saying of it out loud is still so much more than formality: it is a joyful expression of their relationship to each other and the community around them. 


The excitement of retrieving the football - which will
 become a shared story, a shared experience of life

The Apostolic Creed is not the Creedal Test that has rightfully been recognised in terms of power dynamics and control.  It is not accompanied by the cudgel of “say this, think that, or else”.  It is the joyful celebration of a shared experience of the divine, in a community of shared stories, shared rituals, shared prayer, and shared hopes.  This Creed is a shape not arrived at by carving into, or by cutting away, according to a precise, planned view of the end result, but rather a shape grown organically according to the nature of the living material and the conditions over time it finds itself in.  It is a shape that shows its history in every twist and knot, but is always growing, never knowing what the future will bring for it — yet unafraid because growth is not deviation from a plan, it is not failure, it is the success of ongoing life and vitality.


knotted, gnarled, organic growth - this is an apple tree
 but it may as well be a creed from the 4th century CE

“We believe …” can be beautiful, it can be joyful, and I think — if we are honest with ourselves — it is something we all long for.  Though we may all fall into the pride of wanting to push our views and our expressions on others, and though we have all seen too clearly how easily Creedal Tests have been used to exert influence and put pressure on individuals and groups, our longing is not for the set of words.  The shared experience of the Divine, the communal life of shared stories and prayer, the excited back and forth of connecting with others at the profoundest level: that is what we thirst for.

We long to be one, not by giving up our personhood, not by rejecting the quality of individuality, not by capitulating to the will of others, but by embracing the community, by shared living in Truth.  I haven’t lost hope for that “We believe…” moment, that Creed ‘in spirit and in truth’ (John 4:23) and I believe the surest start towards it is acknowledging the culture and the stories that have shaped me and which I already share with others.  Despite the name that the tale is more commonly known by, there were two sons in the tale of the Forgiving Father (Luke 15: 11-32): together we can write an ending where no one is left sat outside.

19 June 2019

#Unitarians look at Roman legend and Norse tradition to consider the moral imperative regarding conflicting demands

On 9 June a smaller group than usual met at Ringwood Meeting House, for what turned out to be, nevertheless, a heartfelt gathering.

Our hymns for the day were “Morning Has Broken” and “Joy to the World” - a rousing hymn to end on and we decided that it is too good to be kept for Christmas!

After opening words from Rev David Usher we lit the chalice candle to words by Greg Ward, notably including , "Though each of us carries forth in this world a small flame, we know that the ability of that light to brighten the world depends upon the many others who learn to walk with it in their hearts.”

Our two readings were intriguingly diverse.  The first was from Northern Tradition for the Solitary Practitioner by Krasskova & Kaldera, and it spoke of the concept of wergild.  At first glance this may look a little like the Roman Catholic idea of restitutions.  But wergild rests not on the idea of justice but of balance. The distinction is that for justice there is a person in the right and a person in the wrong and the latter has to pay the former in order to be made right again, but the idea of balance does not begin with one being in the right and the other in the wrong.  Wergild assumes that in the world, where there are conflicts of interest, some will come off better than others; and if one has come off better there is a moral duty to be aware of that and to find a way to recompense those who came off worse. The Roman Catholic restitutions concept is a making of amends; the wergild concept aims at preventing one conflict leading to another and another and another, ad infinitum.

By Hermitage Museum - http://www.arthermitage.org/Baldassare-Peruzzi/Androcles-and-the-Lion.html, CC BY 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=34591039
The second reading, which was our children’s story, was the legend of Androcles and the Lion, as told by Aesop.  Androcles the runaway slave is brave enough to pull a thorn from a lion’s paw, saving the lion from painful suffering and, perhaps, death through infection; and is later saved from the punishment of death in the Roman arena, because the lion he faces there turns out to be the same lion, who refuses to kill him.

After the readings we participated in our usual circle ritual, where we each offer up in our own minds, according to our personal beliefs.

We had then the opportunity
  • to name what we had been grateful for in the past month;
  • to spend time reflecting on our recent or past actions for the purposes of general or personal reconciliation, in silence or out loud as desired;
  • to sit in stillness for our usual period of seven minutes for meditation or contemplation; and
  • to offer prayers for others, including the lighting of candles.

After a musical interlude and some reflections on the theme highlighted by the two readings, our closing words were by Rev Andy Pakula.


13 March 2017

March 2017 meeting for reverence - balancing individual responsibility with letting go #unitarians

We had a beautiful meeting for reverence this morning which was centred around two extracts from the book "When I See the Wild God"  When I See the Wild God : Ly de Angeles : 9780738705767  

The chalice lighting words were an invitation to stand together with all others everywhere who were meeting together today in their search for truth and justice in freedom, living a life mindful of the divine.

The readings drew to our attention the connections we have with physical creation, through our bodies, and with both the overarching and more local human cultures we live in, through narrative, knowledge and experience.  A new idea to some of us was that our bodies have lived since the beginning of time and will live after our death to this life on Earth (as every atom in our bodies has been around since the beginning of time).  The difficulty in reconciling the ideas of “the one” and “the many” were remembered, with particular reference to J. R. R. Tolkien’s The Silmarillion



We were invited to consider the balance that has to be struck between

being part of the unending creation song (so being able to relax in the knowledge that our own pain, turmoil, joy and love do not actually stop the enduring song of creation)
and
the duty to be authentic, each moment, each decision, to the person we believe ourselves to be (no matter how hard that may be).



We sang some lovely little hymns, hidden gems in the Hymns for Living hymnbook; and were invited to spend our seven minute meditation time reflecting on how we had contributed to the creation song in the past week, and how we might attempt in the coming week to live authentically in line with who we believe ourselves truly to be.


We also lit candles for the things that concern us or which are current joys, and enjoyed a good conversation over coffee afterwards.  Our wide-ranging conversation pivoted around the concept of long-lived relationships, in family, friendship and – interestingly – commercial terms; and how modern day living seems to care little for loyalty.

We wondered how the current fashion for changing employment, leaving our family roots, and losing touch with friends from adolescence will affect society in the future.  And we concluded with the hope, if not complete trust, that people will always find a way to grace and happiness if they want to, regardless of the prevailing social conditions.