Showing posts with label commemoration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label commemoration. Show all posts

15 December 2021

Memory, imagination, loss - and where to find comfort for loss in the Bible -- Ringwood Unitarians' gathering in November 2021

The gathering opened with a roll call of the Ringwood Meeting House worshippers who were killed in military service during the First World War.  This was not an act using the memory, but an act using the imagination, and invoking emotion.

Then, in the light of the COP 26 climate emergency conference of the nations, the president of the day (Lucy) offered a deeper perspective on the relationship between imagination, emotion and memory.  She considered the future, reminding us all that the climate emergency is ‘only’ about accelerating the extinction of the human species and not about the end of life as we know it on Earth, nor even about the destruction of the planet itself. That event will come much later, and will be caused by the explosion of the Sun.


In imagining the future explosive death of the Sun, which will obliterate the Earth, we may experience the emotion of sorrow for loss as we imagine the ending, ending of our personal era, and indeed the whole Earth.  We respond like this because we have experienced loss in our own lives; our sorrow is based on our personal memory of previous loss.  But of course this is hugely ironic as, when that future destruction of the Earth occurs, there will long since have ceased to be any humans, so there will be no sense of loss.


Lucy then looked to the Bible for thoughts that might assist us when we are experiencing loss.  The loss, the overwhelming loss, featuring in the Christian consciousness is the loss of the personage of the poet and teacher Yeshua who is also known as Jesus.  Early followers of Jesus had imagined and eagerly awaited a new everlasting era with Jesus recognisably holding sway over the entire course of human events, and they must have been devastated in the face of losing him.  Thus it was suggested that the New Testament is, in essence, an anthology attempting to help successive generations of disciples come to terms with the loss of Jesus, and helping them to remember him.


She said: “As Christianity crystallised, very early on Jesus became seen as supernatural.  Then Jesus could not be equated with other humans and the loss of Jesus could not then be equated with the loss of other humans.  In the form that the New Testament finally took, the reader is almost throughout the compilation being encouraged to seek their comfort in their faith in Jesus as the Risen Christ.  And it’s quite hard work to read the New Testament in any other than the traditional way.  So, if as Unitarians we do not accept the traditional views of the supernatural nature of Jesus, then it can be hard to find much help in the New Testament for our everyday and oh so ordinary experience of loss.”


So it was to the Old Testament that Lucy turned.  The OT focuses on Jewish life and traditions before the emergence of Jesus, so the loss themes in the OT are those experienced as a community by Jewish people throughout the centuries. In it, perhaps the most basic loss, the most continuously noted loss, is the loss of the homeland and its sacred spaces and places.  So this loss, and other calamities that befell individuals and kingly Jewish states, are more akin to social and personal problems of today, and may speak to us with more relevance.  The inspiration we may get from the OT comes from the record of the Jewish struggle to understand how they came to be exiled and oppressed, with a basic loss of control over their lives, and how to retrieve the situation.  


The OT books of the prophets and the wisdom books help us by supplying a range of different responses to loss and sorrow.  The prophetic books include a sense, described by mystics as having been given by God, that loss will be washed away by God, no demands made.  To illustrate this there was a reading from Isaiah (Isaiah 44:21-26 (New English Bible)).  This was a radical approach when it was experienced and recorded by the Arameans/Hebrews/Jews, as it denotes a loving God, a merciful God.  A God who did not need the ritual human or animal sacrifice of older belief systems. 


In contrast with the prophetic books, the wisdom books of the OT rely less on an interventionist God to help through loss, and more on a human, personal, internal change of attitude in the face of loss.  An example was the second reading was from the book of Ecclesiastes (edited from Ecclesiastes by A World Religions Bible (page 282)).  The teacher and poet Jesus would have been living and working against the backdrop of these and other Jewish scriptures.


Lucy reflected: We each deal with loss on perhaps a daily basis — loss of people, loss of opportunity, loss of resources, loss of self-esteem, loss of memory, loss even of basic forms of trust.  With a Unitarian heritage coming from the Christian culture, we may be able to find insights, from examining certain Bible passages and letting our imaginations roam freely, that will help us to cope with loss.  The culture and governance systems of our land are steeped in traditions and systems coming out of Christianity.  So we might imagine we no longer need the Christian sources, now that our society has mainstreamed ideas from Christianity, in particular in relation to justice, and support for those least able to cope with life’s demands.  But a German academic, Dr Isolde Karle, once said at a conference:


“The Christian cultural memory cannot be taken for granted. It is completely imaginable that one day the story of the Good Samaritan will no longer be known or understood.  Solidarity with the powerless, deliberate care of the marginalised, of the sick and of people in need are not self-evident.”"



Lucy suggested that we live in times when common standards of integrity and moral behaviour are being shunted out the door and the public expectation of what counts as acceptable behaviour is in danger of being re-normalized to a new low.  And worse: there seems to be no visible, widespread public outrage at how our representatives are behaving, and no recognition of the danger that we risk, if we do not return to ‘word being bond’, general trustworthiness, and the courage to maintain and insist on truth.


Under these circumstances the possibility exists that anything or everything can be lost, even the Christian cultural memory.  So it is surely important to us who inherit the culture to keep alive the compassionate standpoint of the Jewish poet, teacher and leader Jesus, and all who followed after him, even if we no longer hold the beliefs in a supernatural Jesus that drove most of those followers on?


At the end of our gathering, after the readings, and hymns, and lighting of candles, and contemplation in silence, this was our witness, the closing words we all said while muted on Zoom:


"We are aware, and we affirm that we do not find our peace

in the certainty of what we confess,

but in wonder of what befalls us and what we are given;

that we do not find our destination in indifference and greed,

but in vigilance and in connection with all that lives;

that our existence is not fulfilled by who we are and what we possess,

but by what is infinitely greater than we can contain.”

Extract from 2006 Confession of Faith of the Dutch Remonstrant Church




07 November 2020

The missing man - Remembrance in Ringwood Meeting House

Some years ago our new group of Unitarians and friends started meeting in the Meeting House in Ringwood.  The Meeting House had been owned by a Unitarian congregation until the 1970s, in continuous operation as a place of worship for dissenting Protestants since 1727.  We think of ourselves as their natural successors.

Like many other churches in the country, the Meeting House congregation lost some of their number in the Great War of 1914-1918, and they commemorated their loss on this board.


A few years ago, someone investigating their family tree visited Ringwood, looking for the name of a family member on the town's War Memorial; but it wasn't there.  However, in dropping into the Family History archives held at the Meeting House, the name was found on the commemoration board.  In this way it was revealed that there was a name missing from the War Memorial.

This weekend we remember the loss of all military personnel and civilians who have placed themselves between us and danger, that our liberty might be sustained.  We remember how much we risk, when we allow our human discourse to descend into rancour and anger.  And we live with a sense of gratefulness, when we are able, that life is ours to live; life that we cannot create but only nurture or let wither.

At this time of grief, grief for and remembrance of so many things, I heed this message from Stephen Lingwood, a Unitarian minister in Cardiff:

"Unitarians must recognise that the world and human nature do not reflect perfectly the image of the divine..... it is nevertheless worth saying that we live in a world where things are imperfect: that there is a problem in human experience.  And it is not merely a technological problem that can be solved by technological thinking.  It is not simply that the world is organised in such a way that causes suffering and pain, and if we found the right way to organise it these problems would vanish.  That was the thinking of many in the past, and it could be argued that it was the thinking underlying the atrocities of the twentieth century.  Technology and technocratic thinking did not lead us to become better human beings, it simply made us more efficient at killing....Rather, the problem is theological: it is a problem inherent in what it means to be human, and it is a problem that requires a theological solution, or, in other words, salvation."

If you are saddened or troubled in these times, try the poppy meditation here:

Poppy Meditation



26 January 2018

Helping Ringwood to remember - Ringwood Unitarians and Ringwood Meeting House Association hosting a vigil for International Holocaust Memorial Day 27th January 2018 #hmd2018 #unitarians @RingwoodMH



Tomorrow, Saturday 27 January 2018, Ringwood Unitarians and the Meeting House Association welcome all who wish to spend some time quietly remembering International Holocaust Memorial Day.  The Meeting House doors will be open from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. for people to come in and sit silently, light a candle, read some literature, learn about genocide events and how genocides slide into happening, and if desired, sign a visitors' book.

International Holocaust Memorial Day aims to keep alive in memory the shocking truth of the Holocaust during the Second World War, as well as more recent genocides across the world.  What we do not learn from our history we are destined to repeat.

22 January 2016

Ringwood Remembers Holocaust Memorial Day 2016


We have been working with the Ringwood Meeting House committee to provide a quiet, informative space in Ringwood for people to mark International Holocaust Memorial Day on Wednesday 27 January.  There has been no joy in the preparations, only a quiet, reflective mood, as we assembled the posters and discussed exactly how the Meeting House would be presented.

"It's frightening that some people are still trying to deny the Holocaust happened," someone said.  It's all about recognising that first hand witnesses to that horror will not be with us forever, and that the facts have to be handed down for fear we forget them.  We so need to learn from the past - and indeed the present, as genocide is still going on in the world today.  Somehow Darfur in Sudan has slipped from the western media radar.

The Holocaust Memorial Day Trust is a charity that was set up by the UK Government, and which is now supported by the Department for Communities and Local Government.  Holocaust Memorial Day was created on 27 January 2000, when representatives from governments around the world met in Stockholm to discuss Holocaust education, remembrance and research. The UK played a leading role in establishing HMD as an international day of commemoration, and 46 governments signed the Stockholm Declaration. They committed to preserving the memory of those who were murdered in the Holocaust. This declaration became the statement of commitment which is still used as a basis for HMD activities today.

Genocide never just happens.  There is always a set of circumstances which occur or which are created to build the climate in which genocide can take place.  Have a look at this:
Gregory H Stanton’s 8 stages of genocide:  genocidewatch.org
 
HMD has taken place in the UK since 2001, with a UK national event and over 3,600 local activities taking place on or around 27 January each year.

In Ringwood people will be able to pick up leaflets on this year's theme - Don't Stand By - and sign a book of remembrance, as well as lighting a candle and sitting for as long as they wish, in the quiet of the Meeting House.

04 October 2015

Looking for action 2015

We have been reading various posts on social media about how younger people today with a religious outlook firstly won't commit long-term to anything and secondly are looking for signs that churches and religious groups are doing something meaningful to change the world, rather than just voicing their concerns.

When you are a very small group it is hard to discern the actions to take that will make a difference around you.  In Ringwood we think we have spotted one.  We are forming a group of all sorts of people who next January will do something new for Ringwood.  This group will be standing up in the street on a cold winter's day saying that we here in Ringwood remember the millions of people killed in the Holocaust, Nazi Persecution and in subsequent genocides in CambodiaRwandaBosnia, and Darfur.  We honour the survivors of these regimes of hatred and challenge ourselves to use the lessons of their experience to inform our lives today.

27 January marks the liberation of Auschwitz-Birkenau, the largest Nazi death camp, and is now designated as Holocaust Memorial Day.  HMD is a time when we seek to learn the lessons of the past and to recognise that genocide does not just take place on its own.  Genocide is a steady process which can begin if discrimination, racism and hatred are not checked and prevented. We’re fortunate here in the UK; we are not at risk of genocide. However, discrimination has not ended, nor has the use of the language of hatred or exclusion. There is still much to do to create a safer future.

Perhaps the group of people in Ringwood who will stand together on 27 January will succeed only in reminding others about the ghastly possibilities in humanity - let's face it, we won't be able to mend it.  But the biblical story in the book of Genesis - the story of Adam, Eve and the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil - though a legend, reminds us that once you know about right and wrong, it changes everything for you.  We know now about the Holocaust, and others may be reminded about it through us.  So that will change something in the world.

If you want to join us in Ringwood in January email us at lucyunbox.ringwood@btinternet.com

26 July 2015

Holocaust Memorial Day Wednesday 27 January 2016


http://hmd.org.uk/genocides/nazi-persecution

We have started the early planning work to hold a witness event in Ringwood to mark International Holocaust Memorial Day on Wednesday 27th January 2016.  The Assistant Priest at the parish church has agreed to be involved and we hope other churches and the Quakers will, too.  But this will not be a religious event and there are many more groups of people, and individuals, who would want to show their commitment to this event so we will be seeking other participants from all sectors of Ringwood.